“You would never let me help you,” Rav shoots back. Rav is having afternoon tea with her mother and grandmother Jit, who they call Biji. She and Jit think that Jaswinder is too particular in the kitchen – “control freak” is the exact phrase, repeated with much teasing.“Mum considers me messy but a normal person would consider me very clean,” adds the chef, so adept in the precision of the pastry section that she works as a consultant for new businesses.